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OBSI's approach to account closure or relationship-ended complaints

Sometimes banks decide to end their business relationship with a consumer and close the consumer's accounts. When that happens, consumers often feel they were treated unfairly. They may feel they deserve an explanation and did not get one or that they were not given enough time to transfer their accounts.

When can a bank close a consumer's account?

In general, banks are allowed to end their business relationships with their customers. In some unusual situations, they are required to do so. When this happens, the consumer will be given notice that their accounts with the bank will be closed and they have to transfer their money to another bank. In some rare situations, the bank does not give notice and just closes the accounts and sends the consumer's money to them.

Usually, banks give consumers reasonable notice of account closures. This notice is typically 30 days. This is to give the consumer time to transfer accounts to another bank. Usually, the notice is made in writing. It is sent to the email and/or mailing address the bank has on file. Consumers are responsible for notifying their bank of any change to their contact information.

Banks are not required to explain the reason for an account closure and they generally don't. Some account agreements will list reasons why an account may be closed, such as:

  • if the account is overdrawn, or
  • if the bank suspects the account is being used for improper use

Most account agreements state the bank can close the account without giving a reason.

Our approach

Generally, if the bank provides the consumer the notice required in the account agreement or reasonable notice, we do not recommend compensation. This is because the bank is entitled to end its business relationship with a consumer. When we consider what reasonable notice is in a case, we will look at whether there wasa special situation that warranted more notice or flexibility.Wemay also investigate if the bank's decision to close the account was:

  • biased
  • in keeping with its policies and procedures
  • carried out in afairmanner given the consumer's situation

Usually, we find banks have given reasonable notice. In rare cases, we may recommend a refund of fees or compensation if not enough notice was given.

We are not able to challenge or change a bank's decision. We are also generally not able to tell the consumer the bank's reason for account closure.

Consumer tips for handling an account closure

It can be very upsetting when your bank decides to close your accounts. Remember that the bank is a business and its decisions are not personal. You usually will not be able to find out the bank's reasons. But there are things you can do, including:

Tip #1:Search for a new bank immediately.

As soon as you receive notice of the account closure, start your search for a new bank. It is your responsibility to open a new account elsewhere quickly. This is important so you don't miss payments or get charged fees that you could have avoided.

Tip #2:Take inventory of your account activity.

Create a list of regular transactions that will be impacted by the closure of your account, such as:

  • pre-authorized debits, monthly bill payments and automatic subscription or membership renewals
  • loan repayments
  • direct deposits of pay or retirement income, investment dividends and government benefits
  • GIC renewals
  • post-dated cheques
  • scheduled gifts to charities

Identify all the organizations that initiate these transactions. Provide information about your new account to them as soon as possible. Again, this will help to avoid disruptions, unnecessary fees or penalties for missed payments.

Tip #3:Communicate any special circ*mstances to your bank.

Do you have any issues that mean you need extra notice or flexibility during the account closure process? In certain situations, it could reasonably take more than 30 days to complete an account closure, for example if the account is:

  • registered (e.g. TFSA, RRSP, RRIF, RESP)
  • maintained for business-related purposes
  • a loan that must be repaid
  • a term loan that has not yet reached its expiry date
  • holding a non-redeemable proprietary GIC that cannot be transferred until its maturity date

If you have these kinds of issues, contact your bank to explain why you need more time to close the account. Tell them how much additional time you need. In some circ*mstances, the bank may decide to be flexible.

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FAQs

What to do when a relationship is ending? ›

Allow yourself to grieve the loss while maintaining boundaries to avoid prolonging the pain. Focus on self-care, engage in activities you enjoy, and seek support from friends, family, or a therapist. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to love someone from a distance.

When someone ends a relationship abruptly? ›

If a relationship ends abruptly, often, one person has fallen out of love. That doesn't mean the individual never loved you. There could have been rough patches causing a mate to develop a different perspective, pushing them away from the relationship.

How to end a relationship with someone you love? ›

What's the Best Way to Break Up?
  1. Be true to yourself. Even if the other person might be hurt by your decision, it's OK to do what's right for you.
  2. Think about how the other person might react. Do you think they might cry? ...
  3. Be gentle and honest — but not brutal. ...
  4. Say it in person. ...
  5. Confide in someone you trust.

How do you truly accept your relationship is over? ›

Coping with a breakup or divorce
  • Recognize that it's OK to have different feelings. ...
  • Give yourself a break. ...
  • Don't go through this alone. ...
  • Don't fight your feelings. ...
  • Talk about how you're feeling. ...
  • Remember that moving on is the end goal. ...
  • Remind yourself that you still have a future.
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When to let go of a relationship? ›

You have an overwhelming, overall gut feeling that this relationship isn't working; you feel negatively often. You cry, complain or feel anxious about some aspect of the relationship or your partner multiple times a week. You don't enjoy spending time with your partner or need alone time more than usual.

What is the termination stage of a relationship? ›

Terminating. The terminating stage is where the parties decide to end or terminate the relationship. It is never easy to end a relationship. A variety of factors can determine whether to cease or continue the relationship.

How do you know when a relationship is finally over? ›

One huge component of lasting relationships is envisioning your shared future together, as you co-create your lives and partnership. If the view of the future doesn't align, or if you've stopped talking about future plans altogether, it may indicate a relationship is coming to an end.

What are the stages of ending a relationship? ›

They are denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance, according to Mental-Health-Matters. These are the natural ways for your heart to heal.

How do you officially end a relationship? ›

What's the best way to break up with someone?
  1. Prepare. Think about what you're going to say in advance. ...
  2. Pick the right spot. Talk to your partner somewhere that's comfortable for both of you. ...
  3. Say it in person. ...
  4. Be respectful. ...
  5. Make a clean break. ...
  6. Stick with your decision.

How do I know when it's time to break up? ›

Should You Break Up? The important thing to remember is that all couples engage in criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling at times. But consistently using one or more of these behaviors is a definite sign that something is not right in your relationship.

How to know if breaking up is the right decision? ›

Here, experts explain some of the signs that indicate it may be time to let go:
  • Your needs aren't being met.
  • You're seeking those needs from others.
  • You're scared to ask for more from your partner.
  • Your friends and family don't support your relationship.
  • You feel obligated to stay with your partner.
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How do you know when it's time to end a relationship? ›

There's no emotional connection

If you're not sharing what's really on your mind, it might be a sign that you no longer want a deep connection. Similarly, if you've found that the usual fun banter between you is gone, or it's difficult to have engaging conversations, your bond could be getting weaker.

What to do when your relationship is breaking down? ›

Everyone copes differently – you could try to keep busy, perhaps distract yourself with new people and new activities, or talk to friends and family and others who can support you, or consider some quiet reflective time by yourself. Avoid rushing into a new relationship.

How do you restart a dying relationship? ›

How do you bring the spark back into a relationship? 7 tips
  1. Reminiscing. Revisiting your relationship roots can help rekindle the romance. ...
  2. Focusing on communication. ...
  3. Bringing back the romantic gestures. ...
  4. Practicing gratitude. ...
  5. Scheduling date nights. ...
  6. Try new things together. ...
  7. Kissing more often.
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