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LHerr Adult
January 23, 2021
age 15+
Beautiful coming of age
“She looked into my eyes. I wanted to look away. But I didn't. Her eyes were like the night sky in the desert. It felt like there was a whole world living inside her. I didn't know anything about that world."This book is a beautiful, honest portrayal of being sixteen. I loved it so much. It made me remember. Ari feels like his life is someone else's idea. His mom tells him he is in transition- this age, this stage in his life, he's living in an ecotone: an in-between world on the edge of two established ecosystems; boy and man. He feels like he is his mom's "case study"; people study him and are always trying to figure him out when he doesn't even understand himself. This is such a relatable story on many levels and I think this is an important book for teens. We all can relate to Ari and Dante’s confusion, pain, anger, excitement, drive, desire, searching for a way to understand yourself, and the world. Trying so hard to hold the confusion of the world inside you, and knowing when and how to express yourself. Feeling like your parents are aliens, your relatives are those “intimate strangers” that you keep at a comfortable distance.This book is insightful and beautifully simplistic, no fluff to distract from the message of youth, and accentuates the honesty. I think many 16 year olds will identify with the characters and their struggles. Ari is 16, unsure of who he is and if he even likes himself. Dante is optimistic and open. Ari and Dante are trying to navigate the world and figure out what they want from it and how they fit in it. We can all relate. Ari struggles with unhappiness and anger like many 16 year olds. He struggles to understand his parents and peers. He wants to be quiet and alone but then the quiet and alone feels lonely. A very relatable sentiment right now. This is a beautiful coming of age story. I will say this on content: You have to be careful when giving YA fiction to young adults. The YA demographic is age 11 and up but its content varies widely so you have to be careful when curating a YA library for an 11-year old. Maybe I’m getting old, or just struggling with what content is appropriate at what age, but I often don’t appreciate how YA authors add drinking or drug use, language, sexual content, violence that feels unnecessary to the story, it feels added for shock-value to interest teens, but this limits the audience. Having a 7th grade child, knowing children that age, and being responsible for purchasing literature for this age can be tricky. I personally don't think this book is appropriate for 7th graders as a whole, as the book states. This is subjective of course. Some parents and teachers choose not to sensor literature, and that is ok, but if you choose to be more careful with the content your tween/teenager reads it gets tricky. A story may be beautiful and important, but content may make it unavailable, which is unfortunate in some cases, this one in particular. This book is a tricky one for me – parents and teachers may want to read it first and make up their own mind as to if it is appropriate for the age they are buying for. I personally think this book is more appropriate for 9th or 10th grade/age 15 and up. This book (briefly) discusses doing heroin, sex, masturbation, drinking. Ari is plagued with bad dreams and realizes one night that when he drinks beer he doesn't have bad dreams. A classmate asks Ari if he wants to shoot up with him. Ari says no. He's curious about heroin but just isn't ready yet.Not to say that a conversation about these things can't happen at age 11 but the book being available to all 11 year olds may be assuming too much. Perhaps if parents know the content and read the book first, they can have a conversation with their child. If your child or student seems confused by their sexuality, or feelings of inadequacy, trouble fitting in with peers or family, etc, this may be a perfect and even necessary read for them. Lierature, as well as other art forms like music, has the amazing potential to help us identify with the world and feel less alone, see beauty in the world. which is a rare and beautiful thing when you are a teenager.
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Silmelinwen Parent of 3-year-old
September 20, 2022
age 11+
Wonderful for getting students to love reading.
Beautiful coming of age novel. A perfect addition for any child who is learning about healthy communication. The characters do not start off being open and honest, and throughout the novel they learn about how to speak openly. It is an engaging read that will get students to actually want to open a book. The dialogue is realistic in a way that most middle grade books are unable to capture.
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Rayn_69 Adult
July 29, 2019
age 15+
I think It showed how important it was for families to support their kids to be themselves and I cried alot cuz i never had that and i hope that other parents would give their kids the love & support they need !! Its a beautiful story with a beautiful character.
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beeboowho Adult
October 9, 2018
age 13+
Oh boy I cried
This is my all time favourite book, Every word seems to carefully chosen. Its the most beautifully written thing. I've cried just thinking about it.I read it when I was 16, and it was the right time for me. I think its a book that each individual will really have to judge for themselves on. A lot of touchy subjects are covered; drug use, hom*osexuality, loss, racism, mental health, ect. There is swearing throughout, but it adds a realness to the charecters- at the age they're at I woudnt expect anything else.I would recommend to all. Its a must read.
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bookgurl Adult
August 8, 2015
age 14+
Expanded my mind and soul
I have read this book two years ago. Just recently I pick it up again to return to the wonderful, well written book. This book is magical in every way. I will forever go back to this book. No book will reach how wonderful as 'Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe' and that is a shame
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tobier Adult
February 11, 2015
age 13+
Just great. Highly reccomended.
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